On a day that Cindy decides she wants to peg me, it is typical for her to surprise me when I arrive home wearing a strap-on under clothing that easily reveals that fact. She is not shy about making sure that I understand what she has planned. If it is on a weekend (which it usually is), she tends to start to dress like this early in the afternoon. However, the pegging doesn't take place until much later in the day, usually well after dinner. This allows lots of time for anticipation on each of our part, which only enhances our final activities.
Cindy abhors messy situations, so she is emphatic about the proper preparation of my butt before she penetrates me. I don't blame her. Nothing is worse than the smell of crap during a romantic encounter.
We have tried a number of different approaches, including requiring me to self-administer a full enema and using disposable Fleet enemas. However, we have now settled on a much more interactive preparation. Cindy has purchased a small stool for our bathroom, on which she can sit and take me over her lap. She now administers the enema. At first, we used Fleet enemas. But Cindy recently purchased a douche bulb. "After all", she says, "What could be more appropriate to prepare your man pussy to be fucked." I end up spending a significant amount of time lying across Cindy's lap while she administers one or more enemas with the douche bulb. While I am required to hold it in, she takes advantage of the time to erotically spank me and tease my balls. I shouldn't try to speak for her, but she seems to get as aroused as I do during this process. And, I certainly don't complain about the attention she pays to my butt and balls.
What I wear is also an important part of our routine. Cindy likes to have me dressed in a garter belt, stockings, and (of course) panties. She has recently started adding a bra or baby doll nightgown. Given my fantasy with panties, I guess that I am not surprised by how much I enjoy having her make me wear this type of lingerie.
When we are ready to begin, Cindy seems to always like to start with making me suck the strap-on. This is the part that I least enjoy. I think that she knows that and she is not overly dominant or dogmatic. However, she does tease me about making sure I get it good and moist. I guess that what I am trying to share is that Cindy does everything in a caring way. But, I also think that she is clearly telling me that she is in control.
When we finally get down to business, Cindy seems to like to start out with me kneeling on the bed and her penetrating me doggy style. She always takes time to make sure I am lubed and takes her time with the initial penetration. Then there is a long, slow fucking process that keeps me rock hard and ready to explode. I'm not sure why, but she always seems equally excited at this time. As much as I want to do so, I am never allowed to touch my cock during this time, and Cindy doesn't touch it either This is a time when Cindy seems to like to demonstrate her dominance and slowly fuck me. It is also a very sexy time for me.
It's taken me a while to be ready to share this post. It is not easy to be able to say I enjoy having my wife fuck my ass. However, we each get so much pleasure from it, that it is something I need to share.
I know that I am very lucky to have Cindy as my wife.