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Monday, March 20, 2017

My Panty Fetish

OK, I've been outed :-).  Cindy spilled the beans about my panty and chastity fetishes.  I don't blame her for doing so.  I've been putting off talking about them, since they seem a bit unmanly.  However, I can't deny how important they are in our relationship.  I also have to admit that they are each important in my own fantasy life.  I'd like to first talk about my panty fetish.

Ever since I was a teenager I have been fascinated with the sight and feel of women's panties, as well as almost any form of lingerie.  I also love the old-fashioned girdles, garter belts, and stockings.  As a teenager I would sneak into my sister's room when she was away and try on her panties.  I can't explain why this is so exciting for me, but I have learned to accept that it is.  My fascination with the old-fashioned lingerie is very strong with respect to seeing women wear them. I'll add that to my list of post topics.

When Cindy discovered my electronic folder of lingerie photos, we spent a long time talking about them and my fascination with them.  She had me try on some of her panties and saw the strong reaction I had to being in them.  She also seemed to like seeing me in them.

She also seemed to enjoy spanking me in them, especially when she spanks me erotically or administers a mild maintenance spanking.  I find that to be very erotic, as well.


I'm sure you can guess that it didn't take too long for her to decide that I should wear women's panties my normal underwear.  I have to confess that I did not put up any resistance.  However, I do keep a couple of pair of jockey shorts in my drawer for times when I need to feel safe, such as visiting my physician. I used to wear boxers, but after I switched to women's panties, Cindy wanted be to wear jockey shorts as the male alternative.  And, ones that she purchased for me are a very sexy sheer nylon.

So, I guess I have become a panty boy because I love wearing them.  I'm also thrilled that Cindy finds it to be very sexy and seems to love it as well.

I'm sure that you won't be surprised that she also quickly picked up on my electronic folder of photos of men wearing chastity devices.  That had recently become another fascination of mine.  I'll share a bit more about that in my next posting.

Larry

13 comments:

  1. Hi Larry,
    Does your wife let her friends know that you are a panty boy? Just curious.

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    1. She has shared it with her very closest girlfriends. I will be sharing more about that and them sometime in a later post.

      Larry

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  2. Larry good post. I feel many more men wear parties than we are aware of. They keep it quiet as it's not "manly". I've been in panties for years and it started out as my idea. Once she seen me in them she loved the way I looked. If the picture shows the style of panties you wear we are different there. the panties I wear are not frilly and made for men I buy them from winter silks. Why do I want to wear them? first they are more comfortable than cotton underwear. They look a lot better than cotton and in the winter time they seem warmer. Like you I keep a few cotton for Dr. visits other than that it's panties 24/7 and every evening after I shower that is all I'll have on. Well um that and an erection LOL. Seriously R loves the way I look in them. As for spanking in them all my spanking is bare bottom. The panties are either lowered to my knees or removed depending on what R wants.
    archedone

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    1. Thanks archedone. It is always nice to hear from you. I have a mix of panties that Cindy has purchased for me. Most are pretty sheer, but not necessary lacey. She likes the looks of me wearing the sheer ones. She also got some ikingsky panties through Amazon which we both like. They have a bit of pouch for my member, but otherwise look like female panties.

      Larry

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  3. Your post today made me smile, and your outing didn't come as a complete surprise. Many of us in female lead relationships are in panties full time. I've been wearing them for so many years I've lost count. As in your situation it was a mutual interest. My wife was also the one that decided my male underwear was to go I don't even own any male underwear anymore. I'm not complaining, it was one of the best things she did that moved me toward a FLR. I now have many more pairs of panties then my wife. Christmas, fathers day, birthdays, I get new panties not ties or the like. She picks out what I'll be in each day from a large laundry basket of panties. What she picks out reflects her mood that day. I'm not in chastity however; her choice as well. It's just not something she has an interest in, though I'd kinda like to try it. I'll be interested to read how that has evolved in your relationship. Thank you for continuing to share your experiences.

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    1. I'm not surprised by what you shared and I suspect that a significant number of men wear them in an FLR. I think I would always want to have a pair or two of conventional panties on hand for medical visits, etc. However, perhaps that will change with time. It's interesting to hear that you are not in chastity because I gather that is also quite common in FLR. As you probably know from Cindy's post, I am in chastity and I enjoy it. I will share more about that in a later post.

      Larry

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  4. Hi Larry,
    A short while ago my husband, like you did, started shaving his pubic hair.
    Recently I found out that he has been wearing my panties when he is home alone. It was always my sexy see through thongs.
    On confronting him he admitted to wearing them.
    He is now currently using thongs. I would say now he wears a thong most days as his normal underwear. He says he genuinely finds them more comfortable than baggy cotton sacks. He must be very careful when he leans or kneels at work or when we are shopping. He appreciates the sensation of his shaved balls in pure silk, but at the same time, he is always very conscious that one can see the top of his thong protruding from his pants. I think he enjoys the danger and I sometimes threaten him to lower his pants. He begs me not to. I'm very tempted to do it.
    As for you trying on your sister's panties, it remember me a story in the book of Julie Delmar, about a young boy stealing his elder sister's panties and mast. in it. Her mother gave him a very severe punishment with the help of his two sisters. Did your sister discovered you were playing with her panties ? (It is something very intimate!)
    BTW I have found mfm porn on his computer and something called cuckhold where the husband has oral sex with the other man or cleans his wife orally after the other man. So it's not panties and chastity for him!

    Thanks for sharing
    The first picture is cute !
    Mary

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    1. I really don't like thongs. For some reason having something going through my crack just drives me crazy. Consequently, I mostly have panties that provide very full coverage of cheeks. Cindy like the look of them on me better too.

      Fortunately, my sister never caught me or found out about my fetish or activities!

      Larry

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  5. larry,

    great post and great site. Its been a pleasure to read thus far. Hope you keep it up. While I don't wear panties everyday, I can tell you that my wife puts me in them most times we make love. I'm a total silk guy and like most styles be it full cut, boy shorts and even thongs. I've been wearing them for her over the past 23 plus years.

    Panties are essential in a FLR / dom/sub relationship. They really reinforce who is in charge of things. Usually if we are going to fool around she will send me to our room to get ready for her. This includes panties always and can move upto a bra, nightie, shaper and even a dress (i saved a few of her maternity dresses which work fine) I then wait in the corner of the room for her to come which can vary from several minutes to 1/2 an hour. Most times i have a used pair of her panties on my head with the crouch over my nose. If you've never done this you must, as the waiting and smell of her will drive you over the edge. When she came in the other day she told me that this session would start and finish and go totally how she ordered it. with that she said how can you have a say? You're wearing panties and a bra. I damn near came right on the spot.

    hope you enjoyed and thanks for sharing.

    best of luck and health.

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  6. Well my wife looks at me wearing panties as something i desire so it is not control for her. So her rule is I can only wear panties that I buy with her. She enjoys taking me to Victoria Secrets and stands back as i pick out panties and watches me pick them out. On several occasions she has had the sales girls come up and ask her if she needed any assistance and she says no but my husband might. When they ask me for help I have to ask them what size would fit me . Once i didn't ask and she had to ask and told me in front of the girl i would be punished for that. BTW great new blog.

    jl

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  7. Good for you, hon! I love that she can tease these secret fantasies and desires out of you, talk openly about them, and make them a part of day-to-day life. I am sure you already know this, but you are lucky to belong to such a wonderful woman. :)

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  8. I will echo what Sally says, lucky you to have such a wonderful wife who happily shares in your lifestyle.
    My wife used to occasionally have me wear a pair of her fancy panties for sex or sleeping in. I always bought some for her for Christmas.
    This past Christmas I bought her a 3 pack of "boy short" panties and a five pack for me of pastel colored cotton panties with the idea that I would have nearly a week long supply for daily wear for a "panty week".
    During a business conference I did get to wear my five days of panties. After reading your blog about having a pair of "male panties", I shopped on line and bought two packs of men's bikinis.
    They sure look like panties, even if they are supposed to be for men. Just one more step toward wearing panties at all times.
    mrbill

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    1. I am very thankful for having found Cindy as my wife. It sounds like we share the love of wearing panties. I'm glad that you like the "male panties" option that I shared.

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