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Sunday, May 28, 2017

Another New Implement

Cindy has continued her introduction of new spanking implements for my weekly maintenance spankings.  This is what greeted me hanging on my closet door each morning last week.  I had never seen it before.  Cindy shared with me that she found it at a flea market a few weeks ago and couldn't resist getting it.  I found it quite frightening and definitely was not looking forward to Saturday night.

When the time came for my maintenance spanking, Cindy initially let me keep my panties on and directed me to bend over arm of our sofa.  She then went to work experimenting with her new toy.  She knew it could do some serious damage, so she really took it quite easy with respect to how hard she swung.  However, like the previous week, she decided that she would make up for it by prolonging the spanking.  And, yes, the panties did eventually came down.  The carpet beater has a very different feel than other implements I've experienced. I is not very smooth, so it 'roughs up' the skin, especially when applied to a bare bottom.  It is also large enough to essentially cover my entire bottom, so that creates a very different and intense feeling.  Used lightly, it is a very interesting new implement.  However, if used heavily, it could be really nasty.

After using it long enough to give me a nicely red and sore rear end, Cindy decided that I should at least experience the more serious aspect of the implement.  She announced that she would administer four hard smacks with it, and I would then be done.  She took her time with those last four, and I happy to be done.


Sunday, May 21, 2017

A Different Type of Spanking

Since we made plans to go to an Irish pub that has live music with Amy and Mark on Saturday night, Cindy decided to administer my weekly maintenance spanking on Friday night.  In a way, I was very pleased because I was getting more anxious as the week progressed.

It turned out to involve more than spanking.  And the spanking I received was very different than anything Cindy has administered until now.

After dinner, Cindy directed me to go to our bedroom and prepare myself and to wait for her in just my panties.  When she arrived, after gathering together a variety of toys and implements, the first thing she did was remove my panties and cage.   She then used one of her scarves to blindfold me.  I soon felt her working with my package as she applied what I realized was black leather cock and ball harness that had been hanging on my closet door.  When she was finished, she commented that it would probably help keep me hard during the evening and would make it more difficult for me to accidentally climax.  She then began to tease my cock and balls with her finger tips and told me that I was not allowed to cum under any circumstance.  I was told that if I felt I was getting anywhere close to having an orgasm I was to beg her not to make me cum.  That would be her sign to back off.

I then found myself being turned over her lap with my penis being clamped between her thighs.  She was wearing pantyhose, so it felt really nice until she began to squeeze her legs together.  After having my legs spread I felt her begin to insert something in my anus.  It was a large piece of ginger root that she had peeled and carved into the shape of a butt plug.  The only thing she was using as lubricant was water, so it took her some time to get it inserted.  As she did, I could feel a gentle burning sensation beginning to build in my rectum.  It wasn't that painful, but it certainly had my attention.  I actually found it arousing.

 She then began to spank me with her hand.  It felt very nice.  She also loosened up how hard she was clamping her thighs together, which also felt more arousing.  After a couple of minutes, she paused.  When she resumed, the spanking felt much harder.  She had started to use the leather spanking buddy from Cane-iac.  It stung a bit more and also felt heavier than her hand.  After about a minute, I felt water being sprayed on my bottom.  When she continued the spanking, the sting was greater, but still quite pleasant.  I could sense that she wasn't spanking as hard as she could, but she wasn't trying to go easy either.  She continued to spank all over my bottom and upper thighs with the buddy for what seemed like ages.  It still felt good, but I could also feel my bottom getting warmer.

When she finally stopped, I felt something very different on my bottom.  It turned out to be a plastic brush that is designed to brush a dog's coat.  It felt pretty rough and scratchy on my bottom.  At first she kind of teased me with it.  However, she eventually began to rub much harder and it felt very abrasive.  She commented how it was probably going to make my bottom much more tender for the remainder of the spanking.  She also let me know my spanking was going to be much longer tonight, so I should relax and not expect it to end anytime soon.  She added that she was planning to spank me in stages tonight.  After being told to get up from her lap, Cindy then used the red plastic brush to tease my penis and balls before she directed me to stand in the corner before we proceed to the next phase of my spanking.

After about a five minute respite, Cindy produced the control top panty hose that had been hanging on my closet door.  She directed me to put them on, which I did.  As I did so, I discovered that she had cut out the football shaped crotch panel and I was directed to make sure my package was put through it and exposed.

I was then taken back of Cindy's lap and she used the water bottle to
spray my panty hose covered bottom until it was quite wet.  She then told me that she was going to set a timer for ten minutes.  I was then spanked over my entire bottom and upper thighs with a leather soled sandal that had been hanging on my closet door until the timer rang. She spanked quite hard at a brisk and consistent pace, working the sandal around all areas of my bottom.  Like the earlier spanking, it stung, but the pain was not overly intense.  When the timer rang, Cindy took time to inspect her work while she teased my somewhat erect cock and she seemed pleased with how red things were looking.

After another respite in the corner, I returned over her knee, had my bottom sprayed with water again, and informed that the timer would be set for ten minutes again.  I was also informed that during these ten minutes the spanking would be solely on my right cheek.  When she started, I realized it wasn't with a sandal.  She was using a paddle ball shaped paddle that essentially covered the right cheek of my bottom.  She didn't spank at full force, but the pace was brisk and constant.  The pain level was tolerable, but when the ten minutes were up, I didn't have much of an erection until Cindy teased it back to life.

After another five minutes of respite in the corner, I returned over Cindy's lap for a repeat of the above process for my left cheek.

That was followed by corner time before I again returned to have my panty hose clad bottom again sprayed with water before having a small wooden paddle used for ten minutes solely on the lower slopes of my bottom.  Cindy again kept the intensity moderate, but the constant, rhythmic, spanking in the same area took its toll over ten minutes.  Like before, the pain level was OK, but I was beginning to realize that  my bottom was getting very sore.  I also realized that I was soft by the end.

After a final period of corner time, Cindy summoned me back over her lap with my legs spread to expose everything I have.  However, this time I was positioned in the opposite direction across her lap.  She used her left hand to tease my penis back to life and then sprayed my bottom again.  This time it stung like crazy (Cindy later shared with me that she had replaced the water in the bottle with rubbing alcohol.)  The timer was again set for ten minutes during which Cindy went back to using the leather spanking buddy to hand spank my entire bottom and upper thighs again, this time with more intensity and at a slower pace.  She also used her left hand to tease my package while she spanked.

However, when the timer finally rang, my bottom was very sore, even though I maintained an erection during the final stage.  Cindy seemed to love seeing how red it was.  By this point, we each needed a sexual release.  Cindy took control of that.  I was on my back on the bed and she mounted me cowgirl style.  I was very aware of my sore bottom against the bed sheets as she controlled our movement.  My package was still bound in the leather harness, which seemed to make it difficult for me to climax, even though I needed it badly.  Without going into too many details, Cindy climaxed and then made sure I also did.

At this point, we crashed and went to bed.  I was required to sleep in the panty hose.  When I awoke Saturday morning, my bottom was still somewhat red and very sore.  There were no bruises like I have experienced with a heavy spanking with the bathbrush.  However, it felt like it was still on fire or raw.

Even today, there is still soreness in my ass.  It was interesting to experience a less intense spanking over a long period of time.  And to realize the effect it can have.  I loved how Cindy took control and managed to spank me to a level I have not experienced without it being as painful as the more intense spankings.  It is a different type of control.


Tuesday, May 16, 2017


When I got up Monday morning and went to my closet, I found this implement hanging on the inside of its door.  Cindy had placed it there during night while I was asleep.  I will admit that I felt some relief because it didn't appear too menacing.  I was expecting something much worse, based on some side comments Cindy has been making.  I have also learned that it is a Leather Spanking Buddy from Cane-iac

So, I went to work feeling more relaxed.  When I arrived home from work and got changed before dinner, I found two more things hanging inside my closet door.  There was a spray bottle of water and a package of  control top panty hose.  I found those two items interesting and I asked Cindy why she placed them there.  She just smiled and said, "You'll see Saturday night."  I think I know what she has in mind, but I have learned to never feel sure about anything Cindy plans.

This morning, another item had appeared.  It was a large piece of ginger root.  I clearly understand what that is for!  Figging is something that Cindy and I have talked about, but never tried.

Who knows (only Cindy) if anything else will appear before Saturday night.  If she is trying to mess with my head, she is doing a good job.


Sunday, May 14, 2017

Introducing New Implements - The Naughty Stick

A few weeks ago, Cindy commented that she wanted to begin introducing some new implements for my weekly maintenance spankings.  She felt that our repertoire was becoming too routine and she wondered if introducing new spanking tools would increase the effectiveness of these spankings.

I didn't think much about it the next two Saturday nights because the maintenance spankings continued with our normal routine, which is usually me spending time over her lap being spanked very firmly with a hairbrush, wooden paddle, or short leather strap.

However, last Monday things changed.  When I arrived home from work and
went into our bedroom to change, I noticed a long wooden spanking implement hanging from the hook inside my closet door.  It was made of maple wood and was two feet long, over an inch wide, and 1/4 inch thick.  When we sat down to eat dinner Cindy asked me what I thought about my first new discipline implement.  "It looks quite frightening" I replied.  She just smiled and said that she thought it would probably be quite effective.  She then shared with me that she has purchased several new implements, and that this one is a "Naughty Stick" from a firm called Cane-iac.  She also let me know that I can expect a new implement to appear on my closet door each Monday morning and it will be utilized for my maintenance spanking the following Saturday night.  She also expressed her concern that I seemed to be developing a bit of an attitude at times, so I can expect the maintenance spankings to become more intense.

So, for the past week, every time I opened my closet door, I had to look at what was going to be used on my bottom at the end of the week.

When Saturday night arrived, Cindy took me to our bedroom for my maintenance spanking.  She began by sitting on a bench at the food of our bed, lowering my trousers and panties, and turning me over her lap for a lengthy warm-up spanking.  This is usually part of her routine, but this week's warm-up seemed a bit longer.  When she finished, she noticed that my penis was straining against my cage.  She commented to me that she hoped I had enjoyed the warm-up, because she doubted that I will enjoy the Naughty Stick.

I was then directed to bring her the Naughty Stick and lower myself over her lap again.  She then proceeded to firmly use the stick on my warmed up bottom.  She started out rather easy and worked her way up an down my bottom.  It produced a very effective stinging sensation, which I sort of enjoyed in the beginning.  However, as she increased the intensity and speed with which she spanked, it quickly became very uncomfortable.  After a time, she had me get up and look at my bottom in the mirror.  It was much redder than I expected.

She then decided that the Naughty Stick was long enough to be used with me lying face down on the bed.  She directed me to lie over a pile of pillows on our bed with by bottom elevated and exposed.  Taking the Naughty Stick she teased me with it again by lightly tapping my bottom as she found an appropriate range with which to swing it.  Then, without warning, she administered a full force swing that bridged both cheeks.  Yeoww!  Did that sting!  It felt ten times more intense than when she applied it with me over her knee.  I usually prefer sting to thud with respect to spanking implements.  But this stung far more than anything I have experienced.  It came on suddenly, as would be expected, and then continued to intensify, before eventually fading out.  Perhaps it is due to the type of wood (hard maple).  However, I also suspect it has to do with the fact that the paddle is narrow and covers both checks, and that she could swing it with much greater force when I wasn't over her knee.

I didn't count them, but I think she gave me at least twenty-five hard strokes with the Stick in that position.  She took her time and let the sting of each stroke subside before applying the next.  By the time she was ready to stop I was begging her to stop.  "I think we found a winner", she shared as she finished.  I was grateful that she then gently applied some moisturizing lotion to my sore and reddened bottom.  This was, by far, the hardest maintenance spanking she has given me.

I'm not really looking forward to seeing what her next new implement will be.  However, I will admit that Cindy definitely has my attention at the moment.  And, that appears to be her goal.


Friday, May 12, 2017

Update on Liz and Amy

I should probably let Cindy provide this update, but I know she is very busy at this time and has some reservations about us continuing this blog.  She hasn't enjoyed the stress it has put on both of us the past week. I don't blame her for feeling that way.  However, I don't want to let one person have that much influence on our lives.  We have both been stressed and frustrated and we are each handling the situation in our own way.  Cindy submitted our last post and then has gone quiet.  However, I know she really appreciated the positive responses she received.  I would also like to share that they were the only responses we received, so no comments were ignored or blocked.  I, on the other hand, initially went into a bit of recluse mode.  But, I am now ready to share again.

I thought I would begin with an update on our relationship with Liz and Amy.  I am sharing second hand information, because all recent contact with each of them has been by Cindy.  Cindy has met with each of them individually.  She reported that her meeting with Liz seemed to be frustrating for both of them.  Cindy tried to explore why Liz hasn't talked with her fiance about her interest in FLR and domestic discipline.   Cindy reported that Liz seemed to think that it would all work itself out.  Cindy feels like Liz is accustomed to having her own way and assumes that she will continue to be able to do so.  She shared that with Liz.  After talking with Cindy, I agree with her.  Also, Cindy knows Liz's fiance better than I do and she feels that he is quite submissive.  Maybe Liz is right.  I guess time will tell.

Her meeting with Amy was completely different. Amy continued to ask Cindy about our relationship.  She continued to be very interested in how we found ways to discuss our individual sexual needs and kinky interests, as well as how we found ways to blend those needs together.   Cindy also knows Amy's fiance better than me and she feels they are both of similar temperment.  They also seem to be having an ongoing conversation about their needs and desires. She shared those observations with Amy and encouraged her to continue to have an open dialogue and to be flexible with each other.

I should also share that in her individual discussions with Liz and Amy, Cindy told them about this blog for the first time.  She didn't want to take a chance on either one of them discovering the blog and recognizing that they were in it.  Even though we don't use our own names for this blog, nor do we use the real names of anyone we talk about, it wouldn't be very hard for Liz or Amy to recognize themselves if they read our posts.    They each expressed that they were OK with this.  Cindy and I also strongly feel that we will not share anything in this blog about Liz or Amy that would surprise them. They are good friends and should learn our thoughts about them directly from us, not by reading what we write about them in a blog.  That may be difficult to achieve, but we are committed to doing our best to achieve it.  It will take active communications.


Tuesday, May 9, 2017

Cindy's Reflections: 'Fake News' or 'Real'?

I am sharing this post because Larry's blog has recently been receiving multiple comments from what appears to be the same anonymous user (based upon the language he uses).  These comments accuse Larry of being a fake and that this blog is not real.  This makes me sad and mad.  Larry started this blog because I suggested he do so.  I thought it would be a good way for him to be able to share more about himself and our life together.  He writes very well, but doesn't communicate as well verbally.  He also doesn't easily share his feelings.  Because of that, I find it interesting that one of the reasons the commenter feels this blog is fake is because Larry doesn't share his feelings.  I now feel responsible for the pain that Larry is feeling about these comments.

Based on advice that we received a month or so ago from one of our readers about an anonymous commenter that seemed to be trying to cause trouble, I have now been directing Larry to delete these comments.  The advice we received indicated that most blogs don't tolerate individuals who try to cause trouble.  We don't know for sure, but it appears that the same person who submitted the original troubling comments is the same person who has changed tactics and is now submitting the current accusations.

Tonight I learned that we can moderate the comments we receive and I have now changed our settings to allow us to review comments before they are published.  I'm saddened that we have to do that.  We will do our best to quickly review comments and post them.  However, we will not allow comments from what appears to be an isolated individual who originally didn't like what we posted and is now trying to find a way to discredit what we are trying to share and our desire to learn from other individuals.

I am also saddened that our current President seems to have created a concept of fake news.  It now appears that if we see any news or information that we don't agree with, the easy answer is to label it as fake news.  I realize there is fake news out there.  However, I also feel that is much too easy for anyone to claim 'fake news' for anything they don't like.

So, I will leave it up to our readers to decide whether you feel we are a couple trying to find a way to learn and grow with respect to FLR, DD, and kinky sex, or whether we are fake news.  On behalf of Larry, I will promise that any comment received from a registered user with a detailed profile and history will be published, regardless of the position it takes. I will not make the same promise for anonymous users or someone who has recently created a profile.  They will be evaluated more carefully.  Our hope will be to publish all comments received.

As I suspect many of you may gather, I am taking over the management of this blog for Larry.  He will still control what he posts.  That is important for each of us.  But I will control the comments that get posted.


Saturday, May 6, 2017

It Happened ... and it was a Very Positive Experience

Cindy gave me a very special gift last night.  I thought it was going to happen Thursday, but it got delayed.  Cindy is excellent at providing tease to intensify things.  She had initially told me that it would happen Thursday night.  However, I didn't remember that she had an evening obligation that night.  She didn't get home until 10:00PM, at which time she suggested that we wait until Friday when she would be more relaxed.  There was no way I was going to try to force her to offer me this gift when she wasn't ready.  So, another day of anticipation awaited me.

It was worth the wait.  Last night was absolutely amazing.  And, most importantly, Cindy seemed to have a  very positive experience.

I normally arrive home first on Friday and start dinner, which I did last night.  When Cindy arrived, dinner was under control and there was a glass of wine waiting for her.  We enjoyed the wine and talking about our day as I finished preparing dinner, and as we ate.  I also think we were each very much aware of the two elephants in the room.  I was eagerly awaiting when we would go into the bedroom and Cindy was apprehensive.

I let Cindy set the pace and took my cues from her.  I was determined to not ruin this wonderful opportunity that she was willing to offer. After a lengthy dinner, we cleared the table and cleaned up the kitchen together.  As we finished, Cindy told me that she would like to take a long, hot shower and would eventually join me in the bedroom.  At that point, I knew that my fantasy was going to happen.  While Cindy showered and prepared herself, I prepared everything in the bedroom.  I also used the extra bathroom to shower.

When Cindy arrived in the bedroom, everything was ready.  The lights were out and several candles were lighted.  Everything that I felt I would need was in easy reach of the bed.  Cindy was wearing a sheer black negligee with matching panties.  I was surprised to see how hard her nipples appeared, because it told me that she was excited.  She joined me in bed and we began to cuddle.  As I reached down to finger her, I realized how wet she was.  After a short time of mutual cuddling and fondling, she had me lie on my back and she released me from my cage.

At that point, things began to move more quickly.  I put a larger bolster pillow on the bed and gently positioned Cindy over it and spread her legs.  That put her in what I hoped would be a very comfortable position and allowed me to easily access her genital area, as well as her anus.  I'm not going to share too many details at this point.  Cindy has asked that I not be graphic.  However, we both seemed to enjoy the things I did to stimulate her and lubricate her.   When I finally penetrated her, I made sure to do it very gently.  I first just inserted the head of my penis and then slowly penetrated more fully.   I was hard for me to hold back, but I knew it was critical.  When I was fully inserted, I waited to see her reaction,  To my surprise and pleasure, she began to move her hips to stimulate me.  It felt like Nirvana.  My penis was in the tightest place it had ever been and it was moving.  I didn't last long.  But the orgasm I experienced was the most intense I have ever felt.

When I finally pulled out, I couldn't wait to turn Cindy onto her back and go down on her to provide oral pleasure.  The gratitude and pleasure I felt was intense and beautiful.  It didn't take long before she had an orgasm that seemed to overwhelm her.

We eventually fell asleep in each other's arms. We have talked about this experience over breakfast this morning.  It was rewarding to me to realize that is was so very positive for Cindy.  I can't begin to describe how positive and intense it was for me.

I guess I managed to do things correctly.  For helping me do that, I want to express my appreciation to archedone and others who have offered me constructive comments along the way.  Your support is greatly appreciated.


Thursday, May 4, 2017

Anticipating Anal Play

I initially asked Cindy if I should post about this topic, or if she would like to post what would be comfortable for her.  She immediately said that she felt we should post about it, but that she didn't want to do it.  She also shared with me that she didn't want me to post any graphic details.  I understood where she was coming from. 

After last Sunday's gathering with Liz and Amy, I reminded Cindy of her promised offering of anal sex.  She quickly acknowledged that I had fulfilled my part of the bargain and she would fulfill hers.  We then spent some time talking about it.  I knew that this would be important.  She was offering me a special gift which was relatively low on her list of priorities/desires.  And, I realized that if I screwed it up, I might not get a second chance.  Archedone offered some wonderful advice in one of his comments about taking it slow (several days) and using a finger first and then a small butt plug to get her ready. I really appreciated that advice.

Based on his advice, I suggested to Cindy that we take our time with exploring this new area.  I also suggested that we take time to let me play with her anus several times before I attempted to penetrate her.  She seemed quite relieved, which told me I was doing the right thing.  However, this was going to be difficult for me.  I was really anxious to have my dick in her ass.

After reading archedone's comment, I went on line and purchased a couple of toys that I thought would be helpful.  I still don't understand why, but after reading  archedone's comment, Cindy was concerned about me putting my finger in her ass.  Having heard that, one of the toys I purchased was a graduated set of anal plugs that I could insert using my finger. This photo shows the smallest one.  The set also included a bullet vibrator that could be inserted instead of the finger. I thought vibration might also be a useful source of stimulation that would be helpful.

I also purchased some small anal beads that I thought might be helpful.  I liked that there were two units of variable sizes, and that I could start small and see how she liked them.

We started playing on Monday night. I knew that Cindy was ready for us to begin when I saw an empty disposable enema in the bathroom trash can after dinner.

I started that night by using the smallest anal plug on my finger.  After lubricating the plug and the entrance to her anus, I used the plug to gently play with her anus with my right hand, while I used my left hand to massage her clitoris.  All seemed to go well for her, which pleased me.  I really wanted more, but knew I shouldn't go there.

The next night (Tuesday) I introduced the smaller set of anal beads, slowly inserting and removing them.  I then repeated what I had done the night before with the anal plug, but with the next larger size.  I was very careful to sense Cindy's reaction and was please to see that she was really excited.

On Wednesday night Cindy seemed to be excited for our time to play.  That excited me.  It also made it hard for me, because I had told Cindy that I would not attempt to take her anally until she said she was ready.  By this time, I was more than ready. We again played.  This time, I used the largest plug and the larger set of beads.  Cindy was definitely aroused, but she still didn't reward me with the words "I am ready".  However, she did reward me with wonderful oral sex.

When we were done, she said "Tomorrow night".

It is now tomorrow night.  I took this afternoon off to get my car serviced.  It took less time than I expected.  So, I am home and and anticipating a special night.


Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Return Visit with Liz and Amy

We got together with Liz and Amy again on Sunday afternoon.  We changed our scheduled follow-up visit with them for Sunday evening, due to a conflict that had come up for Liz.   Cindy didn't give me any suggestions or directions about how to prepare or dress for this meeting, which surprised me a little.

When Liz and Amy arrived, Liz was again dressed very provocatively,   This time she was wearing a short tight skirt that barely covered the essentials with a sheer blouse.   I'm sure you won't be surprised to hear that I purposely made sure that my line of sight was always above her shoulders!  Amy, on the other hand, was dressed more appropriately, but still in a way that could turn heads (she can cause heads to turn regardless of how she is dressed).  She was wearing informal, but form-fitting, jeans and a nice T-shirt that was snug enough to reveal her ample breasts.  But, nothing was over the top.  It was easier to just be natural with her.

When they arrived Liz seemed her confident self.  The first question out of her mouth was "How's your bottom feeling, Larry", as she reached out and gave my butt a squeeze.  Cindy saw what was happening and quickly advised her that she'd appreciate it if she would keep her hands off me.  I decided not to answer her question.

I got wine for Liz, Amy, and Cindy, but  I decided to settle for a diet coke.  We then got comfortable in the living room to resume our discussion of FLRs.  Liz took control and started out by asking lots of questions, many of which seemed to center on specific aspects of our sex life. She asked Cindy if she could see our list of fantasies and activities and how we rated them.  I could tell that Cindy was a bit hesitant, but she decided to allow Liz to see it.  That just gave Liz more specifics to ask about.  I didn't really mind, but it did seem a bit inappropriate on Liz's part.  I could tell that Cindy was becoming a bit uncomfortable.  So, I just sat back and let Cindy do most of the answering.  After all, Liz is her friend and I don't know her very well.  Cindy got very uncomfortable when Liz began to ask about anal sex.  She provided some limited information about pegging me, but didn't address our arrangement with respect to having anal sex with her.

I was pleased to see Cindy eventually turn the conversation in a different direction.  She asked Liz and Amy if they had talked with their fiance's about FLR, including things like the woman making all major decisions, chastity devices, and spanking as a form of discipline.  I was quite surprised to hear Liz respond that she has not.  This new direction of conversation allowed Amy to get more involved, as she shared that she and Mark have had a number of conversations.  Cindy and I both asked about Mark's reaction and learned that he really seems to be interested in FLR, various aspects of kink, and spanking.  He seems especially interested in kink and spanking aspects of FLR.  After we explored their conversations a bit more, Amy began to ask me more specific questions about how I feel about some things, especially chastity, keeping myself shaved, wearing panties, and being spanked.  It felt like a good conversation, and I got the sense that she was asking me these types of questions in an attempt to better understand Mark.

When the time came for Liz to have to depart, Amy made no attempt to leave at the same time.  Once Liz was gone, she became less inhibited and more candid with her questions.  She openly she shared her hesitation and lack of knowledge concerning how to effectively spank Mark.  She also shared with us that she just doesn't understand some of the things that Mark suggests to her, such as tease & denial, ruined orgasms, post orgasm torture, pegging, etc.

Cindy immediately picked up on Amy's questions and asked if she would like the two of us to provide her with better spanking skills and an understanding of various ways to control her man.  Amy was quick to take her up on the offer.  I was then directed to bring our collection of spanking equipment to the living room.  When I returned, Cindy there were two dining room chairs facing each other in the center of the room and they were occupied by Cindy and Amy.  I was directed to place the basket of our spanking tools on the floor to Cindy's left and then to stand along her right side.

After dropping my own trousers, Cindy proceeded to lower my
panties and remove my cage.  She explained to Amy that the first type of spanking she was going to teach her how to administer was an 'erotic' spanking.  I was then lowered across both of their laps and required to spread my legs.  Cindy explained that during this type of spanking, she should have a view of, and access to, Mark's genitals because the purpose of an erotic spanking is to keep him aroused.  Cindy they proceeded to demonstrate alternately teasing my cock and balls and giving me a hard hand spanking.  She made sure Amy observed that I maintained a hard on the entire time.  She then let Amy do the same to me, including teasing my package.

Cindy next demonstrated various spanking implements for Amy and allowed her to try them out on me and see the affect they created.  For each one, she would describe to Amy whether it was stingy, thuddy, etc.  She also explained to Amy that different men react to the various affects differently.  She shared with Amy that I prefer stingy implements and detest the heavy wooden items that provide thud and deep penetrating pain.  She explained to Amy that she will need to learn how Mark reacts to the various implements and decide when and how to use them.

Cindy then demonstrated and allowed Amy to administer what she considers to be a 'maintenance' spanking, each using a wooden hairbrush.  Before they started, Cindy explained to Amy that she does this to me once a week, usually on Saturday night, but that I hadn't received one last night.  She then demonstrated how hard to spank and told Amy that I should not be aroused during this type of spanking.  After the demo, she asked Amy to administer the remaining portion of the maintenance spanking and to keep going until Cindy told her to stop.  Amy seemed to be a quick study, because she was delivering good hard swats with the brush right from the beginning.  It was also at this stage that I realized that Amy was left handed (while Cindy is right handed).

After a short break, Cindy explained to Amy that the worst type of spanking she administers is a 'punishment' spanking, and that it is only given for good reason.  She explained that the type of spanking that Liz gave me the previous week would be considered a punishment spanking.  She also asked Amy if she remembers how Liz used her leg to clamp Larry's legs in place?  She explained to Amy that a properly administered punishment spanking requires that type of control due to the severity of the spanking.  She also explained to Amy that she has given me very few punishment spankings because she has found that the regular maintenance spankings keep me well behaved.  I was very thankful when Cindy also told Amy that she would not demonstrate a punishment spanking to her at that time, since Amy has already witnessed one and I don't deserve one at the moment.  My relief was short-lived though, because Cindy quickly added that perhaps she will invite Amy to participate in a punishment spanking the next time I deserve one.

We then took a break and ordered out for some pizza.  By the time the pizza came and we enjoyed dinner, Cindy decided that we had shared enough with Amy for one day.  She also shared with her that she understands that  Amy has lots of questions about things like tease&denial, ruined orgasms, and pegging.  She then suggested that we plan to get together soon and talk about the things that Mark is suggesting to her.  Cindy also suggested to Amy that she Google each of those topics before we get together.

After Amy departed, Cindy and I shared our reactions to the afternoon and evening.  We each were surprised at Liz's bluntness and desire to ask us about some very personal aspects of our sex life, and the fact that she has not talked with her fiance about any aspects of FLR.  We each also appreciated Amy's approach and her sensitivity to my thoughts.   We were each pleased at her willingness to open up to us and her desire to try to figure out what Mark is looking for.   Liz and Amy are certainly two very different people.

I also asked Cindy what she has in mind with respect to helping Amy understand the kinky aspects of FLR that Mark is suggesting to her.  Cindy smiled and said, "You'll see."