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Monday, June 26, 2017

Cindy's Update: Amy and Liz

Larry and I are each aware that we have been absent lately.  It's been a busy time for us.  And we don't see much let up in sight for the next couple of weeks.  We recently talked about what we should share at this time.  I have agreed to post a much overdue update about Amy and Liz, which is the subject of this post.

After the second visit to our home by Liz and Amy, I met with each of them individually to talk about what had happened during both visits and my feelings about the situation.  Amy and I were on the same page about everything and she was very interested in learning more about FLRs as well as how Larry and I keep our sensual life alive.  Consequently, I have invited her into our home several times for candid conversations and demonstrations.  Larry and I have also gotten together with Amy and Mark on a couple of occasions, but they have been purely social.   Amy and I have talked about involving Mark along with Larry, but neither one of us feels that it would be good to do so right now. I have informed Larry that he needs to post about our meetings with just Amy and to share his reactions to what has taken place..

My individual meeting with Liz was a different matter.  It quickly became apparent that she was not going to take any responsibility for the way she and Amy set Larry up.  That really disturbed me.  I know that Larry behaved badly (and he openly admitted that, and graciously accepted his punishment from the three of us).  However, I expected Liz to acknowledge that she was purposely trying to set him up.  That was not happening.

Given where Liz was at that time, it also became apparent to me that our long time friendship was going to be threatened unless we resolved this matter.  It was clear to me that Larry did not want any part of being around her, and I can't blame him.  After two visits and discussions with Liz, I decided to take more drastic action.  I invited her to come to our home for dinner.  I let Larry know that I had plans to resolve our current situation with Liz, but I didn't tell him any specifics.

As we worked our way through dinner, it was still clear that Liz was accepting no responsibility and that the relationship between Larry and her was very tense.  That convinced me that I needed to find a way to get Liz's attention and to level the playing field between Larry and her.  So, I made the final decision to put my plan into action.

As we finished dinner, I forced myself to be very candid and bold with Liz.  While Larry was cleaning up the kitchen, I told her how I felt and let her know that the current situation needed to be resolved.  I then shared with her that Larry had accepted a very deserved spanking for his actions, and that I felt that she also deserved to be punished for her actions.  In the end, I summarized it by telling her that unless she was willing to apologize to Larry and to receive a spanking from the two of us for her role, our friendship was going to end.

Much to my surprise, Liz agreed.   I'm still not sure what caused her to agree, unless it was the fact that deep down, she knew she was wrong to do what she did, and that she values our long term friendship as much as I do.  Whatever the cause, I was grateful.

When Larry returned to the living room I asked Liz if there was something she wanted to share with Larry.  It took her a moment, but she eventually told him that she was sorry for how she orchestrated the trap that she and Amy had set for him.  I then shared with Larry that Liz had also agreed to accept a spanking from the two of us as a form of retribution.  Larry looked at me with total surprise, which then turned to a slight smile.

Liz had arrived at our home wearing thin, skin tight yoga pants with a pullover that came down to the middle of her bottom.  I was initially upset with her for wearing something so provocative.  However, I was now glad for it.  Since I planned to have Larry administer a significant part of the spanking, I wanted to to be meaningful, but I didn't want to expose her bare or pantied bottom to him.  I was well aware that Liz usually wore thongs (which is what she was obviously wearing under the yoga pants), so raising her skirt or lowering her slacks would have likely meant exposing her entire bottom.  The yoga pants worked out perfect!

I asked Larry to go to our bedroom and bring our basket of spanking implements.  While he did that, I brought a dining room chair into the living room and sat on it.  After Larry returned, I sat on the chair and directed Liz to come and lie over my lap.  I then proceeded to spank her with my hand.    I've gotten pretty good at using my hand on Larry.  We each love the intimacy of a hand spanking, especially when his bottom his bare.  However, I was not about to expose Liz's in front of Larry.  I also wanted to let Larry spank her with an implement and give her the harder portion of the spanking.  By forcing her to accept the spanking, I had gained the upper hand over Liz.  I wanted Larry to also gain that advantage, and I figured that a hard spanking would do the trick.

After several minutes of a hard hand spanking, Liz was beginning to seriously squirm.  I told her to get up.  While she rubber her bottom, I told Larry to pick out an implement to spank her with.  Much to my surprise, he quickly picked out a relatively thin wooden paddle-ball shaped paddle.  It is one that Larry and I both know provides lots and lots of sting, but does not bruise or produce deep penetrating pain.  It was an excellent choice and I was pleased that he didn't go for anything heavy.  I wanted him to be able to provide her with a prolonged spanking that she would remember, but not feel brutalized.

Larry then took my place on the chair and I directed Liz to lie across his lap.  She was quite reluctant and took her time getting into place.  Larry took his time getting her into a comfortable position before lifting her top above her bottom.  He then took the paddle and began to gently apply it methodically to her entire bottom.  "You can spank her harder than that Larry", I commented.  He then began to increase the intensity, but continued with a slow methodical pace.  It was obvious that he had learned a lot about spanking while over my lap the past months.  He was very effectively providing her with a methodical spanking that was building up heat in her bottom, but was not doing any serious damage to her.  After several minutes of this, Liz was squirming and loudly asking him to stop.  Larry turned his eyes to me for guidance.  I directed him to keep going.  A short time later I directed him to give her forty more very hard spanks with the paddle.   He smiled back at me, as if to say "It will be a pleasure".  He then began to slowly administer the hard spanks, allowing Liz time to feel the sting of each one before giving her the next one.  After about twenty, Liz begged him to just get it over with.  "Do you want the remainder to be delivered in quick succession?", he asked her.  "Yes, just please get it over with".

Larry again then looked to me for guidance.  I nodded my head to indicate that she should go ahead.  He then asked Liz if she was sure that is how she wanted to receive the last twenty-two spanks.  "Yes", she exclaimed.  Larry then proceeded to deliver the final twenty-two hard spanks with the paddle in rapid succession.  Before he finished, Liz went limp over his lap and began to quietly cry.  When I told her she could get up, she didn't do so immediately.  However, when she finally did, she looked at Larry and said "I'm so sorry".  It was at that time that I realized the front of her yoga pants were wet, as was Larry's right thigh.

I immediately took Liz to our extra bathroom and told her I would bring her some panties and slacks.  By the time I got to our bedroom to get clothing for her, Larry was there changing his slacks.  He expressed his sorrow for what had happened and didn't know quite how to handle it.  I assured him that it was not his fault.  He had merely given Liz what she requested for the ending of her spanking.  I then took panties and slacks to Liz.

We all eventually gathered in the living room, but it was clear that Liz just wanted to leave.  She quickly did and Larry and I spent the rest of the evening discussing what had happened and how to proceed with Liz.

We will share more as time permits and Larry will also share more about our relationship with Amy.


Sunday, June 4, 2017

Cindy Shares - The Importance of Kink in our Marriage

It's been a while since I have shared anything.  After reviewing Larry's
recent posts, it dawned on me that he has focused primarily on our spanking activities and has not shared much about the kink we each enjoy.  I feel that kink is an important part of our relationship, which has been a complete surprise to me, but I can't deny it.  The photo that Larry suggested I include is much more graphic than what I would choose and I really don't like the word "filthy".  I would like to change it to "kinky".  However, the message of the photo conveys how I feel about how we are approaching our FLR relationship.  Larry introduced me to spanking and kink.  And, I have found that I love both of them.  I love spanking Larry in a way that excites and challenges him.  I also love the fact that we can each share our fantasies and desires with each other, and decide together if and how to explore them.  When Larry asked me to spank him before we got engaged, he unleashed something in me that I didn't know existed.

I have also realized that Larry has not shared much about our continuing relationship with Liz and Amy.  Some of you have asked, so I think we need to do better in that area.  A lot has happened that Larry has not shared.

I'm sorry this is brief, but we have each been extremely busy with life's demands lately.  That is a good thing, but it doesn't allow enough time for the fun stuff in life.